Well my friends, I'm glad you asked. Mostly because it gives me a great excuse to use the word "sexpert." I frickin' LOVE that word! I try to use it on a daily basis, but I'm mostly met with judgmental stares. I know for a lot of you, the information I'm going to provide will be elementary, my dear Watson. But keep in mind that there will be lots of people who will get some knowledge from this...and then hopefully will just GET SOME. Ya heard?
Since I'm no sexpert (hee), I'm going to direct you to another site that can give you the technical answers. I can only offer you stick figure drawings or a sock puppet show, which I will do upon request.
YOUR FIRST TIME:
ARLAN SAYS: ...Should be with someone other than your Kelly Clarkson poster and a glove.
SEXPERT SAYS: "There’s a lot wrapped up in your first time lesbian sexual experience. Whether it’s your first time having sex at all, or your first time having sex with another woman, being nervous is normal. There’s so much cultural hype about “your first time” and “losing your virginity.” One thing is true, you never do forget your first time. Here’s some tips to get you through your first time lesbian sexual experience.
1. Get to know your own body. Before you can even think about turning someone else on, it’s good to know what excites you. Yes, I’m talking about masturbation. Spend some time one-on-one with yourself. As you touch yourself and..."(click here to read the rest!)
HOW TO STRAP ON THE OLD STRAP-ON:
ARLAN SAYS: Anyone who's ever gone indoor rock climbing and been around a strap-on harness knows why I giggle each time.
SEXPERT SAYS: "Harnesses come in two basic flavors..."(click here to read the rest!)
FISTING:
ARLAN SAYS: It's not just for me and your mom anymore. (sorry! I had to!)
(click here to read what the sexpert has to say about fisting!)
ORAL SEX:
ARLAN SAYS: Yes please.
SEXPERT SAYS: "Spend some time and get your lover excited before making the plunge. Tease her whole body before you head south. When having oral sex with your lover, it's not all about..."(click here to read the rest!)
TRIBADISM:
ARLAN SAYS: The word always makes me think of some sort of ritual around an old Indian burial ground. Thank *clit* it's about something completely different!
(click here to read what the sexpert says about tribadism!)
THE CURE FOR LESBIAN BED DEATH:
ARLAN SAYS: Well I would say being married to Katharine Mcphee fixes all chances of that happening. But if you're not as lucky as I am, might I suggest threesomes, leftover Halloween costumes and porn? No? Hmmm...ok well see what the sexpert had to say:
SEXPERT SAYS: "I don’t think lesbians are the only ones who suffer from “bed death.” But lesbians sure do have a reputation for losing the libido after a few years together. Does your relationship have to end up in bed death? No! Not if you don’t want it to. But like most things, sustaining a healthy sexual relationship takes work. Here are some tips for keeping sex in your lesbian relationship...
(click here to read the rest!)
I look forward to the comments in this post. Bring em on!
11 comments:
i think it may be hard not to sound pervy when commenting on this post! haha
after reading this, i immediately called my girlfriend. ohhh man, i can't wait until she gets here.
wow i think this site is funny. A hispanic certainly didnt think of this... I guess it's great for those who don't know, but for me it just re- assured me of what i already know. Thanx Arlan i think ur blogs are awesome
now if only i had someone to practice on....
I think this will be informative for many people! good post!!
if people still can't really picture "tribadism" i'd recommend reading the following - lot's of detail :)
http://www.geocities.com/wcollege2002/tribadism.htm
.. it's just too important to miss out on ha ;)
Meee-yow.
Arlan, you truly are the most amazing sexpert ever to walk the face of this planet.
I'm looking for a new sexretary for my office of hot lesbian hot things. Interested? ;)
As always, your blogs are not only educational, but they make us wanna drop our panties to floor in praise of your brilliance.
aha i just read this last week on that site!! mm strap ons... i have one waiting for my gf to use..ahhhh i cant wait
HA! sex in steps. The funny thing is I never had instructions, my experiences have been purely experimental...and I've never had any complaints.
We should release a step-by-step instructional video. I bet we'd sell a shitload of them...
This post made me happy. =]
Hey i think this very helpful my partner and i just recently after two years together have introduced our first ever toy being a strap on we have been having some fun. I think trying to introduce new things keeps it exciting and hopefully keeps both parties interested.
Thanks for the extra hints
This is totally random, but were you by any chance at a bank in Santa Monica just before closing time last Friday (26th)? I thought I saw you, but I didn't want to be like "Hey, maybe person whose blog I read - it's me, this person you don't know. How are you doing?" You know what I mean? If it were you, you were looking good! ;)
I also wanted you to check out this song, if it'll let me link it. It really should be your anthem!
www.youtube.com/watch?v=KAJFLvZEf9Q
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